This blog will help you turn memories into meaningful stories for your family. We will sample three techniques to show how to take life experiences and create a memoir to record these events. By the end of this session, we will have drafted an introduction and outline to help them produce personal stories cherished by your family for generations to come.
Helen and Teacher
The Story of my Life
Monday, February 17, 2020
American Doll and Toy Museum: On Souvenirs
American Doll and Toy Museum: On Souvenirs: I'm writing in praise of all kinds of souvenirs in this post, all kinds. Not just dolls, but spoons, thimbles, snapshots, pennants, pat...
Friday, January 24, 2020
What makes a book a success?
Briefly, in fiction, poetry, drama, for a book to be a success the reader has to care about the characters. Some beautifully written books leave us cold because we don't like or care about the people in them. I've read, and enjoyed, badly written books, some romances, some sci fi, some mystery, because I cared about the character, even if they were two dimensionally drawn and shallow. Something made me care.

I like reading when I was young, Jackie and Joan Collins books; I didn't think they were going into the literary canon, but there characters in them I worried over. Same with Judith Krantz. Barbara Pym has made a career of birthing memorable characters, and Jane Eyre, Ann Karenina, and Jo March have transcended the pages of their own novel homes. So has Nora from A Dolls House, so have any number of Shakespeare heroes and heroines. Comic heroes do the same to us, hence passionate discussions over who is better, Superman or Batman. Ahab, Ishmael, Lord Jim, Billly Budd, Tess, we lvoe and care for them. Even our animal protagonists get to us, Bambi, Dumbo, Beautiful Joe, Black Beauty, Lassie, Stellaluna, on and on.

Plots are nice, nonfiction passions make those books go round, but in the world of fiction, we have to care, and the character needn't be the most moral, law abiding creature in the book. Like the real people in our lives, fictional folk have to spark an emotion; we don't care how they've been created via pen and paper, but we care about them and what happens to them. That is what drives the story.
I like reading when I was young, Jackie and Joan Collins books; I didn't think they were going into the literary canon, but there characters in them I worried over. Same with Judith Krantz. Barbara Pym has made a career of birthing memorable characters, and Jane Eyre, Ann Karenina, and Jo March have transcended the pages of their own novel homes. So has Nora from A Dolls House, so have any number of Shakespeare heroes and heroines. Comic heroes do the same to us, hence passionate discussions over who is better, Superman or Batman. Ahab, Ishmael, Lord Jim, Billly Budd, Tess, we lvoe and care for them. Even our animal protagonists get to us, Bambi, Dumbo, Beautiful Joe, Black Beauty, Lassie, Stellaluna, on and on.
Plots are nice, nonfiction passions make those books go round, but in the world of fiction, we have to care, and the character needn't be the most moral, law abiding creature in the book. Like the real people in our lives, fictional folk have to spark an emotion; we don't care how they've been created via pen and paper, but we care about them and what happens to them. That is what drives the story.
Friday, January 10, 2020
On Loss
" I remembered that after my father died I would wake up in the morning and I would not remember for a minute that we had lost him, and then when I did, it was not so much amguian that I felt as a simple child's desire to be back in the time before he died."
Anne Rivers Siddons, The House Next Door
Anne Rivers Siddons, The House Next Door
Tuesday, January 7, 2020
The House Next Door
Review of The House Next Door by Anne Rivers Siddons
There is an old Greek saying that if you don’t praise your
own house, it will fall on you. Indeed,
good old Elphaba could tell us a lot about houses that fall and kill one’s
siblings. There are books about them,
too, those nasty, vicious, sort of haunted houses, but the ghosts and malicious
presence are the house itself. Rose Red,
Amityville Horror, The Haunting of Hill House, and so many more nasty abodes
seem to have their own brand of deadly in hospitality.
Siddons has written a masterful suspense about a malicious
house and its grounds worthy of real estate like The Castle of Otranto. This brilliant, modern house, and its lush
grounds and rhododendrons, prove deadly to all its owners. Spoiler alert; the architect does not leave
unscathed. Also, if you like pets and
animals, maybe you want not to read this book.
The praise heaped on the house next door soon turns into a
curse. Strange maladies, violence, and
personal tragedies creep up on you. The
prologue skillfully foreshadows events
to come.
Colquitt and Walter Kennedy are the couple who witness and
define the neighborhood, full of old money, but not ostentatious. Their names conjure Camelot, which we all
know wasn’t. Comfortable, New Englandy, a classier version of Peyton Place . A talented architect creates a gorgeous
modern house in neighborhood of classic
traditional homes. Each part of the book
introduces a new family that meets with all kinds of catastrophes once they
move into their dream home. An interesting aside is the name “Colquitt” which
is an old Anglo Saxon name meaning “from the coal pits.”
Be careful what y wish for; you might get it. This house is pure, shining, daytime evil,
where no one is safe.
Thursday, December 12, 2019
"And So this is Christmas . . "
Every year the holidays seem to come and go much more quickly. They are as ephemeral as the snowflakes that often accompany them, often dissolving on glass even as they accumulate on dead grass and concrete.
Tonight I went to a brief, but wonderful, Christmas concert of classic carols and music, sung in harmony by amateur musicians with professional heart.
With each note, I heard the ghosts of everyone I've loved, those same phantoms of Christmas past blinking in the lights of the Christmas tree.
For the first time this season in all of the frantic behavior, it felt like Christmas. Our holiday is low key this year, wrapped more in memory than giftwrap. How I miss my mother and dad, my grandparents, uncles, good friends now long gone.
As I age, I measure my life in Christmases past, and wonder now many will be in my future. Memories of the smoked chicken and pheasants we used to have are almost better than whatever it is we have for dinner this year. At least we aren't coming off of or planning funerals.
What memories do you cherish of The Holidays? I remember and treasure the memory of nearly every gift I've ever received, and I've treasured the giver more. I treasure memories of handmade Christmas gifts and cards, of cooking my mother's recipes one after the other to try to resurrect her.
To those who lament the alleged commercialism and excess of Christmas, I say Christmas is more than that, those aspects have been lamented since at least the 6th century. Christmas is good will, and good feelings, it is fellowship, and music, and spirituality. There is nothing like it, and no one like Santa and its key players, including the Holy Family and the three wise men.
Angels we have indeed heard on high, and sometimes, we even listen to them.
God bless us, everyone!
Tonight I went to a brief, but wonderful, Christmas concert of classic carols and music, sung in harmony by amateur musicians with professional heart.
With each note, I heard the ghosts of everyone I've loved, those same phantoms of Christmas past blinking in the lights of the Christmas tree.
For the first time this season in all of the frantic behavior, it felt like Christmas. Our holiday is low key this year, wrapped more in memory than giftwrap. How I miss my mother and dad, my grandparents, uncles, good friends now long gone.
As I age, I measure my life in Christmases past, and wonder now many will be in my future. Memories of the smoked chicken and pheasants we used to have are almost better than whatever it is we have for dinner this year. At least we aren't coming off of or planning funerals.
What memories do you cherish of The Holidays? I remember and treasure the memory of nearly every gift I've ever received, and I've treasured the giver more. I treasure memories of handmade Christmas gifts and cards, of cooking my mother's recipes one after the other to try to resurrect her.
To those who lament the alleged commercialism and excess of Christmas, I say Christmas is more than that, those aspects have been lamented since at least the 6th century. Christmas is good will, and good feelings, it is fellowship, and music, and spirituality. There is nothing like it, and no one like Santa and its key players, including the Holy Family and the three wise men.
Angels we have indeed heard on high, and sometimes, we even listen to them.
God bless us, everyone!
Saturday, November 23, 2019
Dr. E's Doll Museum Blog: Creature from the Black Lagoon
Dr. E's Doll Museum Blog: Creature from the Black Lagoon: Does anyone remember his name in The Munsters? He was Uncle Something. Watched the whole film tonight with Julie Adams, who recently passe...
Thursday, November 14, 2019
American Doll and Toy Museum: Honoring Vets and Dolls!
American Doll and Toy Museum: Honoring Vets and Dolls!: Travel Celebrate Vets Love our Dolls Harriet Brinker’s Dolls Etc. brings us VETS and DOLLS Together! Two terrific prog...
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